15 Nerve-racking Job Interview Questions and How to Answer Them

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Preparation is the zen of the job interview.

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It’s the final judgment.

Each word you blurt out can decide the next years of your life.

This is how an important job interview usually plays out. For some, the stress alone could be their one way ticket to rejection and unemployment. For others who came prepared and confident, success in almost guaranteed.

While most job interviews can be rough, some are just plain nerve-racking.

One fine example of an interview from hell is the hiring process of McKinsey & Company. According to job database Glassdoor, the company starts off with a bang; asking the applicant a question straight out of a master’s degree thesis defense!

Below are some of the most terrifyingly difficult job interview questions and how to answer them.

1) Why you, of all people?

This is a staple one, and applicants usually overlook this question.

As an applicant, your main job is to focus on selling all your credentials. Review the job description and memorize the qualities the company likes. Stealthily align your personality with these qualities, but don’t sound too rehearsed.

Monster.com mentioned that the wrong way to answer this is along “because I need the job.” The correct answer will be: “I want the job because I know I am capable,” then support your claim.

2) Tell me more about yourself.

This should be an opening question, designed for the human resources manager to assess your personality more than your skills. First impression definitely last in this setup.

A safe way to answer this is to mention all of the four life areas: your childhood, education, past work, and recent opportunities related to the industry. Don’t talk too much about specifics here since you are being judged on how you answer than what you say.

3) Why did you choose our company?

Preparation is the key.

TargetJobs.co.uk tells us that this is actually a multi-layered question. You have to answer these implied inquiries:

  • What do you know about the company?
  • Are you interested in the industry? How?
  • Other than monetary compensation, what drives you to work?

These are basically easier questions to digest; and answering these three in a single speech can work very well in your favor.

4) Describe your personality.

Ian Ruddy, Head of Human Resource Operations at Telefonica’s O2 UK, said that this question is asked to their applicants because personality is important when considering employees. There are many ways to not over-hype yourself while remaining positive. Use (positive) adjectives such as easy-going, methodical, motivated, punctual, and reliable.

5) Will you leave after five years of employment and no promotion?

The correct way to answer is to mention that you are an eternal learner. Say that you are ambitious, but you understand the office setup.

“Different companies promote people at different rates, and I’m pretty confident that working for you will keep me motivated and mentally stimulated for several years to come,” is how Vicky Oliver, author of 301 Smart Answers to Tough Interview Questions, would answer this one.

6) Why did you choose to go to your university?

Always start by mentioning the quality of education of your alma mater. Drop the names of famous professors that might be recognized by your interviewer. Tell that you considered many different campuses but ultimately picked the one you thought would offer you the best education for this particular industry.

7) Where do you see yourself in five years?

This is a tricky question. What the interviewer is actually asking is if you are looking for a position or a long-term career.

The safest way to answer this is to say that you see yourself excelling in the position you are applying, and drop the company’s name as a catalyst for your ambition.

Career expert Thea Kelly’s answer would be that “I am currently exploring my career path, but I do know it will involve this industry, so this job is a great fit. I admire this company because [insert well-researched company fact] and I see myself continuing to develop my career here.”

8) How do you fit a giraffe in a refrigerator?

Ah, this question is infamous. Questions like these are along the same line of “How many jet planes are flying on the world right now?” and “Estimate the number of tickets sold during the Olympics this year.”

It actually does not matter if your answer is on-point. What matters is how you solve this seemingly impossible problem. The key here is to let the interviewer inside your brain. Tell him or her exactly how you would solve the problem.

9) Are you willing to travel far for the job?

If you are, then don’t hesitate to show your enthusiasm. Natural travel junkies should have no problem with this question. Otherwise, be careful in mentioning your dislike for travel. A blatant ‘no’ will surely make you lose the job.

10) Which influences led you to this industry?

Be candid. Tell stories of your youth and how you were inspired by a person, event, or object. Tell them that you have been pursuing this dream ever since you could understand (if true).

Interviewers love to listen to entertaining and insightful anecdotes. This is not very difficult to answer, but many still fall flat and sound fake by answering clichés such as ‘myself’, ‘God’, or a global figure like Gandhi or Bill Gates.

11) How do you handle office conflict?

This is an example of a behavioral question. Hiring managers love to ask a couple of these during interviews.

The best response would be to cite a concrete example. Tell a story of how you handled conflict in the past and how you were able to amicably resolve it. “Conflict questions are common because everybody wants to hire a good ‘team player’,” says New York University adjunct professor Pamela Skillings.

12) What didn’t you like with your past employer?

Never, in a million years, talk negatively about your past company or employer. With a question like this, you have the added task of turning a negatively-loaded question into a positive answer.

Start by complimenting the company, and segue into the little stuff that ‘annoyed’ you rather than ‘irked’ you.

If possible, try and make a general statement towards the tasks rather than the management or people. “I was tasked with too much paperwork when I feel like I would grown and excel more when interacting with people,” can be a great answer.

13) Why do you want to leave your current job?

(Or: why did you leave your last job?)

Like question number 12, don’t talk negatively about your working conditions. Tell them that you look to broaden your horizon despite enjoying your current work, but be honest.

14) How do you define success?

Immediately start by telling the interviewer how you evaluate success. Different people have different perceptions of success, but always link your answer to the office environment. Meeting goals, growth, and skill mastery are great substitutes to typical answers like ‘money’ and ‘wealth.’

15) Do you know any jokes?

Always prepare one. Never enter a job interview without a ready-to-go harmless joke in your pocket. Not delivering anything is worse than a bad joke.

 

The Big M again or not. That is the Question.

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I read this article and thought it was spot on. I am not being confrontational, I would like to spark a discussion with this article. I heavily edited it to fit my own situation. Please ignore the weird formatting. I wasn’t able to get it just right. I posted it elsewhere and it didn’t get much of a response so I will see if anyone here has any opinions regarding this.

For certain I believe that no marriage is better and more sensible than a bad marriage. I know that I won’t crumble and die if I don’t get married. But since it is something that I would like to do it is a bit sad to think that with each passing year the opportunity gets further and further away.

An essay about a mid-life Jew who would like to be married.

An article by Howard Barbanel edited and revised by Anissa K. Fogel

Contrasting the blizzard of twenty-something weddings is the near total dearth of nuptials for anyone who is over 40. When was the last time you were at a wedding of some forty-somethings? There is a palpable personal and communal mania to get married in one’s 20s and 30s which is contrasted by the equally palpable apathy about doing the same when one is over 40. Combine this with the divorce boom you have the makings of a midlife marriage crisis.

The over-40 single population is not nearly as homogeneous as those in their 20s and 30s. There are two main subgroups, the first being the never-marrieds and the second being the divorced. The never-marrieds comprise several subdivisions of their own. You have those who concentrated on their education and careers to the near exclusion of all else and/or concentrated on having a lot of fun dating a lot of people a lot of the time with not one serious marriage thought in mind.

Also in the never-marrieds are those who are phobic to a point of paralysis – be it fear of commitment, emotional intimacy, physical intimacy, “settling,” or any combination of the above. There are some who did manage to get engaged once or twice but pre-marital jitters or last-minute revelations scotched the wedding, sometimes at the eleventh hour and they’re scarred or damaged from this in some fashion. There are also some never-marrieds who are confirmed bachelors and bachelorettes who actually revel in the fun lifestyle of dating someone new all the time. These people will also tell you they’re still looking for “the one,” because it can be socially unacceptable to say you don’t want to get married, but they really don’t.

Lastly, some never-marrieds are just a little bit odd or off – a condition that is often exacerbated over many years residing alone, talking to the walls and their pets. A lot of the over-40’s have given-up on internet dating and going to singles events out of a sense of futility. Many have resigned themselves to their lifestyle.

Study after study has shown that never-married women over 40 have the same odds of getting married as being struck by lightning and even if they do manage to get hitched, having a child or two is fraught with huge expense (for medical intervention) and anxiety. For men, 50 is the new 40. If a man is financially successful and perhaps reasonably attractive he can get married for the first time in his40s but if by 50 he hasn’t tied the knot, women under 40 generally won’t consider him and he probably has a reputation of being commitment phobic, which earns him the title of “toxic bachelor.”

The escalating divorce rate is the perception that quick and simple solutions exist to complex problems. There’s nothing simple about divorce (especially with children) and it usually results in the swapping of one set of problems for another. Sometimes people are so frantic to change their lives that they’ve no real idea of how difficult it may be to ever get remarried.

The divorced population also has sub-categories. People who divorced young, under 30 and with no kids or with one or two have a high probability of getting remarried if they’re marriage-minded. For women over 35 it is trickier especially as the more children a divorced woman has goes right to the heart of her eligibility and chances for remarriage but you still see a bunch of second marriages in one’s 30s. When the big four-oh hits, everything changes and marriages practically stop cold.

A lot of over-40 female divorcees quite frankly have had it with marriage. They may have gotten married in their early or mid 20/30s and had a number of kids with their ex and they’re burnt out and exhausted from the experience. Often, their former husbands did unpleasant things either during the marriage or the divorce (or both)and so a lot of these ladies really don’t want another man padding around the house scratching himself, watching sports on TV and making all the male bodily noises that they now find repugnant after a decade or two of living with their often now-hated ex. They would make an exception for a hedge fund guy bringing in seven figures a year and who looks like Brad Pitt, but these fellows are few and far between.

These women are not interested in or able to have any more children so they don’t see the need to be married, especially to balding, aging guys evincing various degrees of emerging corpulence and lacking wads of flash cash. In the over-40 divorced population, marriage has come to be seen by both sexes as something exclusively for procreation. If no procreating, no need to tie the knot. Companionship and intimacy are increasingly seen as commodities that can be leased, not purchased.

Among the divorced men, a lot of them had a harrowing divorce experience themselves where they lost their families (or any least their family life), daily access to their kids and their homes (as in their physical residences, often necessitating an involuntary downsizing in accommodation). The divorce itself probably cost a small fortune and the men still have to pay tuition, camp fees, child support and sometimes even the mortgages on their former homes. They are crushed by the burden of supporting two households. The last thing a lot of these guys want to do is take on a whole new raft of financial responsibilities (i.e., a woman and her kids or have more kids with a new woman) when they can barely make ends meet as it is.

Some studies of the general population show that women initiate nearly two-thirds of all divorces over 30. It’s a myth that mostly men are breaking up their homes. Having been on the receiving end of the devastating emotional and financial experience of divorce, the guys are often also disgusted with the institution of marriage and understandably gun shy as well. Also, the last thing they’re looking for is a replica of their now ex-wife in the form of a 40-something divorced woman with kids in tow. If they have no interest in more children they also see no need to get married.

Generally people are as apathetic towards the over-40 singles as are most of the singles themselves towards the want of being married. The sense among the community is “you had your chance when you were young and we have to focus on the next generation” and “you’re grown ups, fend for yourselves.”

The world of over-40 Jewish singles

I don’t know what the overall prescription is for this dilemma other than that a paradigm shift needs to take place, aided by the community, to say that to be Jewish means to be married and that marriage is not just for making babies but also to give you the fulfillment that comes with a richer life made possible by companionship and that life ought not to be lived alone or in random hookups of dubious emotional satisfaction.

Most Conservative, Reform and unaffiliated (secular) Jewish singles today of whatever age generally are culturally ineligible to date or even consider marriage to any kind of Orthodox person, no matter how culturally American or Modern they may be. Most non-Orthodox envision Shabbat as a prison-like experience that creeps them out.They have more in common with secular Christians than with Modern Orthodox Jews, which is one reason why the non-Orthodox intermarriage rate is stratospheric. They’d rather deal with Christmas and Easter than Shabbat, kashrut dietary laws and the holidays. Yet they still want to marry someone Jewish. What it means in practicality is that the over-40 single has a very small pond to swim and fish in and the water is evaporating with each and every passing year.

Didn’t Get The Job? Do This…

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Didn’t Get The Job? Do This…

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A LinkedIn reader sent me this,

I interviewed for a job with a company on my bucket list. I was one of two finalists. I nailed the final interview… or so I thought. I got the email today from the HR Manager that t they went with the other candidate. She said he had more experience than me but that they loved my passion for their company.

I’m crushed. Is there anything I can do to try to get them to change their mind? How should I respond? Do I even respond at all?

When you find out you didn’t get the job there is something you can do. But, it begins with knowing…

The Difference Between “No” & “Not Today”

First, take a deep breath. I know losing out on the job feels like they said, “no,” to you personally. But, what they really said was, “not today,” to your business-of-one. They simply picked another service provider they thought was a better fit for their needs. It doesn’t mean they don’t like what you’re offering, nor does it mean they’ll never use your services. In fact, let’s look at what you’ve accomplished:

A) You beat out hundreds of candidates and got the initial interview.

B) You nailed the first interview and made it to the final two.

C) You were told they loved your passion for their company.

This is what any good salesperson dreams of making happen with a potential client. It’s the foundation of what can be a long and fruitful relationship, but only if you take the next step.

Prove You Meant What You Said

Show your exceptional character by emailing back. Better yet, make a phone call to the person who gave you the news and say,

Thank you for letting me know you made a decision. I’m really happy you have found the right candidate for the job. The interviewing process with you was very inspiring and I meant what I said about wanting to work for your company. So, I was wondering if you could advise me on what I can do to be proactive and stay on your radar screen for any future opportunities?”

By showing you have no hard feelings and still want to work for them even after not getting the job, you will make an amazing impression. Not to mention, they’ll now have a vetted candidate on file they could call on a moment’s notice for a new job and potentially bypass the hassle of posting the job and interviewing a bunch of other candidates. Don’t forget, hiring isn’t their full-time job. They’re busy. So, anytime a company can save the hassle of going through a long hiring process, they will. By telling them you want to stay in touch and do what you can to get the next job, you’re making the most of the relationship you have developed with them so far.

Don’t Let Pride Get In The Way

You invested time and energy in getting to know this company. And, they’re the type of employer you want to work for. Don’t let your pride get in the way of your ability to nurture this relationship into a potential job offer down the road. Be a smart business-of-one and leverage what you’ve created. Who knows? The person they hired might not work out. In which case, they’ll be calling you. Plus, if they’re hiring now, they could be hiring again soon. You don’t know what jobs may get created down the line that could be an even better fit for you. Get over the initial blow of not getting chosen for this position and get in gear on laying the foundation for getting the next one!